Someone asked how it feels to be a mother now. Someone who was at Joislen's shower and bought her a gift. I know she didn't mean harm. I know it's hard to understand. I just politely reminded her that I've been a mother, but yes mothering a living child is very sweet. We can't scold and crucify everyone for not understanding. Thank GOD they don't understand. Sometimes we just gotta remind em of our family dynamics.